If you're on the date, and she's not into you...

Let's suppose that you're on the date, and you're not even getting mixed signals. Her body language indicates no indicators of interest. She doesn't seem very curious about you. You tried a tap on the hand, and she pulled back further.

If this happens rarely... don't worry about it much. For your own mental health, I recommend that you don't chase women who are not showing any interest in you.

If you're an experienced pick-up-artist (or feel like you need some practice in your technique), you might want to try to treat her as a "cold approach", and try to build that sense of attraction... but it's going to be a hard struggle.

Hey, not everyone will like what you have to offer. Cut the date short, and wish her luck.

If it's happening routinely though, you're probably doing something wrong. And it's probably something that you're doing early in the process - not on the date itself.

Here's a checklist of things that can kill a date:

• Using inaccurate pictures, or false statements in profile or communications.
• Acting in a way that's completely different from the picture you set forth in your profile.
• Not asking hard enough questions during guided communication.
• Offering bribes before, or during the date.
• Coming on too strong - demonstrating a level of romantic or sexual interest that isn't healthy for how much you really know about her.
• Demonstrating disrespect or criticism of her values.
• Being too deferential - letting her make all the choices.
• Demonstrating that you're more interested in making her happy than making yourself happy.
• Spending more time pleasing her than expressing your interests and personality.
  
• Poor hygiene.
  

In short, if you're not developing that chemistry - find out what you're doing wrong. Fix it, and don't do it again.