Well... it looks like I've been around long enough to hear some of the success stories that have been coming in.
A good number of you are now starting to have more "communication" than you can reasonably handle. I've even heard stories about how success in eHarmony is starting to affect people's dating lives outside of the service as well.
I've found much the same thing. When you're starting to be successful in dating, a lot of good things happen. You realize that you don't have to put on an act to attract people. You act confidently, and genuinely.
Women notice this. And they know that these are rare qualities. And this adds to the "success spiral".
When you're doing this, and you're discovering that you have to turn desirable women away to protect your free time... you're in the zone. Congratulations.
One more bit of advice, if you're "in the zone".
Observe yourself. Notice how you treat women differently than you did before. Notice the mental frame that you now have.
Because, unfortunately, "dating slumps" happen. And, when they happen, it's easy to fall back into old, unsuccessful habits.
But... when you know what you did right, it's easier to get back into the game.
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