Are the open communication templates manipulative?

A lot of readers have difficulty in following my open communication template. (Scroll to the bottom, and read backward, if you're not familiar with it.)

I suppose, in a way, it runs a little differently than previous sections of the eHarmony Cracked system. Because, in profile building and guided communication, I endorse the concept of fearlessness, rather than following a script.

So, when people see this section, they start to think: I'm really following a script here. And I can see that Scott really believes that this script is effective. And it does make sense. But using time pressure seems manipulative, doesn't it?

Not really.

The fact is, you should have a life outside of eHarmony.

And, if you don't have one, you should be spending time building one.

So, let's establish your life (or the life you're building) as being important. Do you really want to sacrifice it for someone you haven't met? Of course not - you are a busy guy.

So... stand up for yourself. You'll find that women understand and respect the need to accommodate your busy life.

And after all - all you're asking for is a phone number. People give them out every day. After exchanging a lot less information that you've shared in guided communication.