Most guys, when they visit a site like eHarmony, don't really know what they want.
And, in their profile and communications, they try to please everyone. So, they try to put out long streams of anything that might please someone.
And, often end in a case of what I call, "Textual diarrhea". Long passages of disconnected, loose crap.
And, make no mistake about it - women see through this quickly.
In the profile? You really don't want to go into "diarrhea" mode. Pick just a few intriguing highlights. And keep your text short. Your highlights may not please everyone... but they'll please the women that you want to spend time with.
In your communications? Ease off the gas. She's gone through long rounds of guided communication. If she's done that - she's interested in you. You don't need to prove yourself further. Relax.
Because, when you relax, the women who are attracted to you will work harder.
And, pretty soon, you might be on the receiving end of her textual diarrhea.
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