Thursday, August 7, 2008

Photos - and grabbing attention.

In eHarmony profiles, I've always advised people to tread a line.

If you say too little, or say the same things that everyone else says - women aren't going to pay attention.

If you get too freakish, though, it looks like you're desperate for attention. Or just plain weird.

Well... photos are the same way.

If you can't look like you can put yourself together well - you look weird.

If you have pictures that look the same as everybody else's - they won't grab attention.

On the other hand, if you put out pictures that are so outlandish that it makes you look like you're begging for attention - it makes you look weird or desperate.

So, how do you stand out without grandstanding?

We'll talk more about that in upcoming days.

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