Okay, I pulled a little bit of a trick there...

Okay, I pulled a little trick with yesterday's article.

You know those cliches that women use?

A lot of men use the same ones.

And, when women read these cliches, they react the same way that we do.

We roll our eyes, and go, "Oh no... not another one." And that's not the reaction that we want.

Some cliches, however, are unique to men...

Remember, "I love watching (the local sports team)?"

This is the female version of "I like typical guy things." So, when men try to do this, they put in typical girl things. The mildest versions include enjoying the arts. In it's most extreme form... you see romantic strolls on the beach, chick flicks, flowers... you get the idea.

But if you really are one of those guys?

First of all, don't make it a bribe.

Second, don't be vague. Be very specific. If you are an artist, describe your work. If you like certain types of art, describe what you like, and how it expands you. It's this level of specificity that will separate you from the phonies that swarm eHarmony.

And if you really are that guy... it shouldn't be hard to do.