Remember the goals of the challenge!

To wrap up my "challenges" miniseries, it might be a good time to remind ourselves what it is about challenges that make them work.

In no particular order, challenges can successfully build attraction when:

• They create a little tension. But it should be playful tension - not critical tension.
• A woman feels good when she answers them. Challenges shouldn't be a chore. They should be fun.
• They convey that you're still the selector. Essentially, solidifying your position as an idealizable person.
• They provide a woman an opportunity to "prove" that you'll be good for mirroring or kinship.
• They force her to pursue a deepening of the relationship - rather than as a sign that you're sold on the idea of advancing, and just waiting for permission.