Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Oh... wow.

In previous articles, I've talked about the processes of idealization, mirroring, and twinship.

How do you know when you're on the right track?

Well, first of all, you should be feeling great. If you are... you're on the right track.

Another?

When you're really hitting the target, she'll bask a little.

If she finds something she idealizes, she'll repeat her compliment.

And if you're mirroring or displaying twinship successfully, she'll keep repeating what she did to impress you.

It won't be subtle. She'll visibly relax. Almost like she's in awe. She'll probably say, "yeah", and do her repeat right away.

It's a powerful moment for her. Let her bask.

It's a good thing.

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