Tuesday, July 1, 2008

"I don't play games." Starting when?

There's another point to be made from yesterday's audio train wreck...

Did you find it interesting, how, on the second message, he kept saying that he won't hang around with women who play games with him?

He even accused her of having mental illness - for not returning his first phone call?

Uh... right.

That's an extreme example, but guys do make mistakes similar to this.

Think about it for a moment.

Imagine that you have no problems finding fun and interesting women to meet. They're plentiful in your world.

Would you go into 20 minute lectures telling women that you won't put up with her if she plays games with you?

Would you get upset if she didn't return a phone call? Or insult her? Or make threats to cut her off forever?

Of course not. You'd just move on.

So... when guys do these things, they demonstrate the exact opposite of what they're saying.

Me? I just follow my two strike rule.

And, when they hit two strikes? I don't threaten or blow up.

I just stop calling. And move on to meet women who are eager to talk.

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