So, you've been through the eHarmony process, and you're finding that you're liking a woman... but, although her comfort is high, her attraction is low. And, in "Just a Guy"'s words, she's using you as an emotional tampon.
What do you do when you're in this situation?
It's one of the most common questions in the seduction community. So common, that the answer has become an acronym.
GFFM. Short for "go find five more." (The word "find" is often replaced, but I've found that "find" works just fine for me.)
Why is it so important?
Because, when you're trying so hard to get a woman to be attracted to you, you start to do all the wrong things. (I'll talk about that tomorrow.)
But, by the time you've actually dated five more women, people usually realize that Woman #1 wasn't as special, attractive, sexy, interesting, witty, or charming as you had thought.
And at that point? You've reversed the power. You've got options.
And if she really does want something from you? She has to start competing for your attention all over again.
And if anything builds your attraction level at this point - it will be this.
"But, aren't there other things that can help build attraction"?
We'll talk about that tomorrow.
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