Monday, April 2, 2007

What NOT to do in open communication

You've finally finished structured communication.

If a woman is communicating with you, it means that she's intrigued, and wants to get to know you better. And, if you don't make mistakes, phone contact is almost a sure thing. (Unless you decide not to take that step.)

But, a lot of men still manage to ruin that sense of intrigue.

The most common mistake? The statement that you'll spend time answering questions until she's ready to go on the phone.

It can be a fair, but time-consuming way to get to know each other. But, when people become comfortable with each other, and DON'T make physical contact... they become friends. And, usually, only email friends at that. And any sexual tension will certainly be dead at the end of the process.

But don't worry. I'll guide you through the process. If you follow the advice that I set forth, you'll have her phone number in two messages. Four at absolute maximum.

The other mistake?

I said that a woman, after completing structured communication, should be intrigued. Interested. But they're rarely fully sold.

But a lot of men start open communication with a shower of compliments. About how they're so right for each other, and how much they have in common. And how soon they want to meet, and all of the wonderful cuddles they're going to share...

But, if a woman's only intrigued... that's a VERY scary proposition.

So, you're not going to hit on her either. You're offering to get to know her better. And that's it.

So, how do we do it?

Watch and learn...

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