"We are the only way. You must be assimilated." Right.

Finally, there's another class of "advice" that you need to take with a serious grain of salt.

Every once in awhile, you get someone who's a little too big for their britches. Guys that say you must follow their advice. Because it's the only way to be successful with women.

Even eHarmony took a stab at those scare tactics for a number of years. (They're a little better now, thankfully.)

But, in the seduction community, these claims are also very common.

They're also patently ridiculous.

I mean, really. These people have published their advice for how long?

And how long has mankind managed to continue it's existence?

And people managed to get laid before these anointed ones started giving their advice?

And, somehow, people still manage to hook up without discovering that the advice authors exist?

Oh.

I guess some people really need an attitude adjustment.

So, don't buy into the hype. Use their ideas. Experiment. Find what works for you.

But don't let anyone convince you that they have the only way to be successful with women.