Who influenced your life?

The second essay that women read is, "Who has been the most influential person in your life, and why?"

Most men are also vague when they answer this question. Or they try to weasel out of it altogether.

Unfortunately, this question is a subtle maturity test. If you don't answer, it makes women uncomfortable.

So... think about some of the turning points in your life. What are some of the best decisions you made? Who influenced those decisions that helped you feel happier and more satisfied with your life?

Bingo. That's your target.

Now, write your answer. Name the person, and say (but don't dwell on) how you've changed after meeting them.

One caveat: A lot of times, changing points in our lives are associated with pain. And that's OK, to an extent. However, if you bring up topics like death, disease, poverty, or disaster, your essay should focus upon how these were overcome, and not upon the tragedy itself.

This is a section that will probably need some "buffing", and we'll talk about that process soon. But, at least you've got the basis of an answer that will demonstrate your maturity, and, again, put you ahead of the people who did not.

Got any great answers? Or answers that you think need work? Put them in the comments section!