Life is tough for the superhero sidekicks of the world.
They face the same dangers as the heroes. In fact, they face even more danger.
Superman and Captain America don't get hurt when a random thug fires a gun at them. But Jimmy Olsen and Bucky Barnes are oh-so vulnerable to these humdrum attacks.
But the sidekick still plays his role. Providing support. Steady companionship. Friendship. Counsel.
So, when women see the hero and the sidekick together... who do they swoon for?
They always chase the hero, don't they?
"Okay", you may ask, "What's the point of all of this so far? Why are you talking about superhero sidekicks on an eHarmony advice blog?"
The answer is simple.
A lot of guys, when they decide to write their profile, describe their best qualities in a way that makes them look like sidekick material.
They're "faithful friends". But they don't lead.
They're "laid back", and "go with the flow" of the superhero's lead.
And they'll do anything for their friend.
... and then, they wonder why the women are paying attention to the superheroes.
Stop wondering. The "sidekick" role does not work on eHarmony.
Be the hero. Not the sidekick.
P.S. If you don't understand why women don't go for the sidekicks... you really need to read (or reread) my welcome package.
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