When challenges aren't fun

A lot of attention in the seduction community is spent upon being a "challenge".

Not giving everything up right away.

Making the other person earn your attention and interest.

It's a concept that a lot of people resist.

And it's a concept that beginners often take too far.

They forget... challenges are supposed to make the interaction more fun. For BOTH of you.

And some things that beginners confuse for challenges, such as heavy-handed demands, or intentionally making yourself a pain-in-the-butt to deal with... will harm you.

So... next week, let's talk about what makes challenges work.

Have a great weekend!