What if meeting women WASN'T a problem?

Okay, I realize that most of the people who go to eHarmony are there because they have difficulty meeting women that interest them.

But, for a minute... think about how you'd act if that wasn't a problem.

How would you act differently?

Some guys might not be so eager to please. Or to come up with "right answers". After all, if you had plenty of women to choose from... would you care if she liked the answer to your question?

Others might be more casual in their talk. Or their questioning.

Or they wouldn't push so hard to advance an agenda before they really got to know her. Or stress out when the agenda isn't working the way you hoped.

And, you know what? Women also notice these things. And when men act like they need to push or pursue... they lose interest. Fast.

So, when you're in a difficult spot with a woman, it often pays to ask the question.

"What would I do right now, if I had 11 other women who wanted to talk with me?"

Odds are - that's the right thing to do.

And, if you keep it up... you won't have to act like it's the truth.