Closes - you can't take 'em personally.

So, you've found a woman that you're really interested in getting to know better.

You initiate communication, and eagerly anticipate her response.

The next day? You discover that she's closed you.

Yes, folks. It happens to everyone. And it can be upsetting. Especially at first.

And when it's happening a lot - a lot of men take it personally. They begin to feel like there's something wrong with them.

But, really... why would someone think that?

If it is happening a lot - it's the sign of a bad profile.

That's okay. Building a profile (and selecting your photos) is a skill that says nothing about how worthy you are as a person. I know a lot of great guys (including myself) who had difficulty showing how great they really are.

Remember - they're saying "no" to your current profile - not you. They don't know you yet.